This article originally appeared in the December 2003 edition of diversityinbusiness.com

Copyright 2004 by GENLIGHT Por EL, Inc.  All rights reserved.
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Despite improvements in economic indicators during the last quarter, my friends in corporate America tell me that times are tough. Here are the facts: critical expenditures continue to be cut, new business is more difficult to land, margins are thinner, and longer hours are the norm. Everyone seems to be under more stress than usual. One thing that also is more prevalent is a heightened pressure between managers and subordinates.

While these professional relationships have become strained, in part due to three years in a down economy, some relationships have soured because managers have decided to use these tough economic times as an excuse to demand more of their employees. What are these managers demanding of their employees? A lot, including more production for the same or lesser compensation; the threat of additional job reductions in order to cut expenses; and a "take it or leave it" attitude concerning the impact of reorganizations and restructures.

According to the Economics Statistics Briefing Room of the White House, close to nine million people were unemployed at the end of September 2003. The prospect of joining those who are looking for work is not an attractive option for most employees, and managers know this.

Whose fault is it? A Three Case Study

Here are a few examples of situations that make me wonder whether it’s the staff member, management, or the presence of diversity that has created less than optimal working relationships:

A friend recently shared with me that she accidentally learned that a peer was earning over $25,000 per year more for doing the same job. Same responsibilities, comparable performance, and similar experiences with the company - almost everything about the two individuals is identical. The discovery of this huge salary discrepancy has resulted in lost faith in the manager. Her enthusiasm for the job is lower and her faith in the company has deteriorated. One other disturbing note: her well-compensated peer is male and unlike her, he is not a person of color.

Another friend told me of his difficulty with receiving a performance review. It seems that everyone else in his department had received a review, and a corresponding salary increase, but the manager "just hasn’t had time" to complete his. This person had previously been unable to get the manager or the personnel department of the company to provide job responsibilities or performance expectations, items critical to doing any job correctly. My friend has told me that the relationship with the manager has now become much more adversarial. The same disturbing difference exists here, that is: my friend is a person of color and the rest of the department is not.

A third associate manages a unit that sells product primarily to minority markets. Her bosses have been quick to slash budgets, reassign the best workers away from the unit, and cut bonuses so people in other units could get more bonus dollars. Her unit has exceeded its goals on a consistent basis and performs at or above the level of other successful units. However, my associate believes she has been treated "less than" compared to those in other areas of the organization. Why? Is it because the departments that received the additional bonus money, resources, and people have few, if any, people of color on staff? My associate and her staff members are people of color. Her management claims to be committed to her unit, but my friend wonders what they mean by commitment?

Maybe it’s the economy. Maybe it’s a coincidence that those impacted were minorities or females. Maybe the insidiousness of racism and sexism continues to operate through certain individuals or companies. Maybe what happened to these individuals is coincidental. Or maybe part of the issue actually resides with the employee or staff member! Are there steps that these individuals can take to improve these situations and the corresponding work relationships?

Is It Me or Is It Them?

It’s difficult to tell if it’s your performance, personal biases, or institutional practices that have created problems in your relationships with those in management. Try these steps first before you attribute difficulties to your manager, or to differences that exist in regard to age, sex, race, personality, or other factors not specifically related to your work:

1 - Get an accurate assessment of your performance.

Spend time reviewing your annual and interim performance reviews. Look at how you have performed versus expectations and carefully read any feedback provided by your manager. Make sure that you understand your company’s policies related to pay, performance, and the documentation of these items. Collect all information related to the quality of your work. Letters, memos, phone calls and notes provide crucial evidence concerning your performance. Don’t expect anyone else to keep this kind of information for you. You are the person responsible for gathering and archiving this information.

2 - Engage is straight talk with your managers.

Have frank, honest, and open discussions with your manager. Be careful to do your homework prior to any meeting that might involve a discussion of your performance or other sensitive issues. Set a specific time for the meeting and give your manager an idea of the subject matter, but try not to go into too much detail until you meet. Prepare an agenda, stay with the facts, and avoid items that are outside of the realm of expectations or your responsibilities.

3 - Document everything in writing.

One thing I have found to be true in America is that written documentation is powerful. You should take the time to reduce important conversations and events to writing so you do not have to rely on memory. You also need to be careful of where you prepare this documentation. The email and word-processing systems used at work are probably owned by your employer and as the system owner, your employer may have the right to access or modify (as in delete) information that you have recorded. If you have documented an occurrence of a sensitive nature on company owned equipment, remember that others within your organization may be able to access this data without your knowledge..

4 - Examine your encounters.

Take the time to reflect on the interactions held with your manager. You might want to ask questions such as: Has your contact been frequent? What is the nature of the contact or meetings? What are the tones of your conversations? Do you know how you are thought of in the organization? How frequently has this manager stepped up on your behalf? Do you merely exchange pleasantries and shallow information without getting to the true issues? Are the meetings with your manager significantly different from those held with your peers? If so, how are they different and why? You might find that there are specific things you can do to improve the quality and frequency of the time spent with your manager.

5 - Be honest in regard to your findings.

If you have specific performance issues – deal with them. Work hard at improving in areas where you may have deficiencies. Get your manager’s buy-in so that there are fewer questions later about where you need to improve your performance. If you have relationships that are difficult, look for ways to improve them. Seek more frequent communication with these individuals, and with other key work partners that may influence your success going forward.

6 - Develop a relationship plan.

Put a specific relationship management plan together for the managers that you work with. This plan would look at ways to make sure that you are meeting each other’s work needs, communicating as effectively as possible, and developing timelines and deadlines for getting particular goals accomplished. The plan need not be complicated. It can be as simple as a couple of paragraphs containing some mutually agreed upon goals to work towards. Be careful not to set goals that are beyond what can reasonably be accomplished.

Summary

Using these steps will assist you in identifying issues related to job performance and compensation, but more importantly, these six points provide the opportunity for you to develop better relationships with your managers.

With stronger relationships, you have the opportunity to overcome differences that might exist due to gender, race, culture, or other diverse traits. You also have the ability to eliminate problems that might come up relative to pay, performance, and distribution of corporate resources. How? By creating an environment where needs are understood and all parties are working towards meeting your needs. Work becomes much more enjoyable when you believe that people, especially your managers, are truly interested in you.

The End

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