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Have
you ever wondered how to be more productive? I
know I have, and recently my executive coach
helped show me how.
Things were getting done in my
company, but the really tough tasks and projects
always were unfinished. Hard to complete items
seemed to drag on, no matter how early I got up,
how many to-do lists I put together, what system
I used to set priorities, or how many times I
said to myself: I need
to do this.
There were plenty of excuses
available: paperwork, phone calls, emails,
letters, memos, meetings, old projects, new
projects, and an even longer personal list –
chores to do, events to attend, family and
friends to keep up with – I think you get the
picture. In addition to the excuses, I had to
battle procrastination, conflicting priorities,
lack of motivation, not having to be
accountable, and bad work habits.
I needed help. Not
administrative help. Not medical help. Not
words of inspiration. What I needed was a
consultant; an advisor, a friend, and a partner
to help me find ways to operate at my full
potential. What I needed was a coach. Wait a
minute – I am a Coach!
Then I asked myself: Do doctors
need doctors? Do teachers need teachers? Do
lawyers need lawyers? Do trainers need
trainers? The answer of course, is yes
they do. Professionals of all types can benefit
from working with someone in their area of
expertise. It made sense – to be a better
businessman, and coach, I needed a coach.
What
Executive Coaches Do
Coaches help you move from
whatever level you are at to a level you want to
reach. Coaching is about achieving peak
performance. Coaches help you define what
excellence is and they help push you to achieve
objectives that might seem impossible to
attain.
As I thought about my business
challenges and the need to improve my
productivity, I put together a list of
things a coach can do for me that I can’t do on my
own:
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A
coach can provide a totally objective
observation of my situation
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A
coach can give me different ways to handle my
challenges
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A
coach can help me gain clarity relative to my
mission and goals
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A
coach can provide me with additional skills and
expertise
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A
coach can share knowledge and wisdom
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A
coach can help me develop and monitor an
improved list action items
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A
coach can “raise the bar” and make sure that I
create stretch goals
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A
coach can teach me how to learn
This list of benefits was both
impressive and compelling – I decided that it
was time to find an executive coach to coach me.
Finding A Coach
to Coach Me
My goal was to find someone that
was easy to relate to and that had experience in
running a broad business in the area of
professional development. I also needed to work
with someone who could help me with my most
pressing business issue – development of a
marketing strategy and supporting materials for
work in a new service area.
One of my instructors at the
College of Executive Coaching came to mind
immediately – Andrea Molberg, Ph.D. Dr. Molberg
is an organizational psychologist who has served
as a consultant, trainer, and coach to Fortune
500 firms, small businesses, governmental
agencies, individuals, and not-for-profits for
over 25 years. She also has been a professional
speaker and college instructor for a number of
institutions and organizations. Dr. Molberg was
the instructor of my class in executive
coaching.
I really liked Dr. Molberg’s
approach. She is a big advocate of
diversification in coaching practices, and my
company, Farrell Group, is diversified. Like
Dr. Molberg’s firm, Farrell Group provides
coaching, consulting, speaking, and training
services.
I also found it easy to relate to
Dr. Molberg and I really liked how she gets to
the heart of the matter quickly. The ability to
get to the core of an issue is a requirement
that I have for professionals that I work with.
My experience is that many people have knowledge
and understanding, but only a select few have
the ability to distill their knowledge down to
its essence and then communicate it with a high
degree of clarity.
Another factor that I considered
was that I had met Dr. Molberg and knew we could
continue to work together over the phone,
despite the fact that she is based in southern
California. Many executive coaching
relationships are face to face, but I thought
that we would be able to get a great deal
accomplished based on the time we had already
spent together.
Things to Do
Before You Hire a Coach
I had the benefit of working with
Andrea Molberg and getting to know more about
her as an individual, a professional, and as a
potential coach. Three considerations allowed
me to confidently select Dr. Molberg as my
coach: I liked her approach, I found her easy to
relate to, and I thought we could establish an
effective long-distance working relationship.
Below is a list of things you can do once you’ve
decided that getting a coach would be of benefit
to you:
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Talk to people that you know
who have used coaches or might know of where
to find qualified coaches. If you are
unable to get credible referrals, contact
the local chapter of International Coach
Federation for some names.
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Interview the coaches in
person or over the phone. Look to find
people that you seem to click with and that
have strengths that will be helpful to your
particular coaching needs.
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Learn more about the coach’s
formal training and coaching practice. Find
out whether they have specific
certifications and specialty areas. Also
find out what type of professional coaching
affiliations your potential coaches
maintain.
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Ask for business references.
Speak to current or former clients to learn
more about their experiences with the coach.
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Develop an understanding of
their coaching philosophy. Learn more about
how meetings are conducted and what you can
expect to achieve as a result of working
together. If possible, ask for a
complimentary session.
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Find out if your coach has a
coach. You want to work with people who
look to continue their own development and
growth.
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Make sure that you are ready
to be coached. Ask yourself whether you are
willing to make changes to help achieve your
goals. Also think about your ability to
stay committed to the coaching process.
After doing this homework you
will be in a much better position to determine
which coach is most qualified and able to help
you achieve your desired goals.
The Results
Thanks to my work over the past
couple of months with Dr. Molberg, I have been
able better define my service area, work through
several complex strategic partnering issues, and
develop a set of corporate materials that are
much more focused and attractive. I’m looking
forward to working with Dr. Molberg on other
items in the next few months.
Take the time to consider whether
a coach would be of assistance to you. You will
quickly find that the investment is well worth
it.
The End
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More on Coaching
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To answer basic
questions you might have about
coaching, see the website of The
International Coaching
Federation (www.coachfederation.org).
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The International
Coaching Federation estimates
that there are over 10,000 full
time and part-time coaches in
the U.S.
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